STOP the double chin. BYE puffy eyes. Here's how to selfie like a goddess.

It’s early morning. I’m standing in my kitchen, espresso machine hissing, doing its sacred work while I scroll half-awake through last night’s girls’ night photos.

Aaand… there it is. That dreaded tagged photo.

Double chin? Check. Puffy eyes? Oh fabulous, I look like I’ve been crying in a wind tunnel. I’m already calling my bestie: “Babe. Take. It. Down.”

Sound familiar?

I’ve heard this from so many of my clients — and honestly? Been there. Done that. Still doing it, when someone catches me mid-laugh with zero warning or I forget to pose like the photo queen I am.

Here’s the thing: we’re full of beautiful, real-life ‘imperfections’ that tell our story… but our phone cameras? Not always the most flattering storytellers.

This isn't a therapy session on self-image (though trust me, I can go there), but let’s stick to the good stuff: how to stop your camera from betraying you and actually look how you feel — powerful, fresh, and flawless.

Because let’s be real — what gets the most complaints?

✔️ Double chin: makes us look heavier than we are.
✔️ Puffy eyes or dark circles: hello, exhausted zombie vibes.

Want to avoid that morning-after regret? I got you. These tips are my go-to before any camera moment — whether it’s a casual selfie or full glam shoot.

And no, you don’t need a filter. Just a little strategy, goddess.

(Stay put, I’m spilling the secrets next.)

1. Chin Forward, Down Slightly

👉 Not up. Not straight back.
Push your chin forward (like a turtle, trust the process), then gently lower it. This creates jawline definition and avoids the dreaded shadow that adds extra chins that don’t even exist.

💡 Think: “Smell the soup, don’t eat it.”

2. Hold the Camera Slightly Above Eye Level

Never — and I mean NEVER — let someone shoot from below unless you’re going for “menacing villain in a movie poster” vibes.
Raise your phone just above eye level and angle it down slightly. Instant lift. Instant magic.

3. Light From the Front, Not Below or Behind

Find that window light, babe.
Natural light in front of your face smooths out skin, brightens the eyes, and gives that “I slept eight hours and drank green juice” glow — even if you didn’t.

4. Smile With Your Eyes (a.k.a. The Tyra Smize™)

Don’t just plaster on a grin. Think about something joyful, sexy, or mischievous. Let that energy lift your whole face.

It softens the eyes and makes you look more alive, not strained.

5. Depuff With a 30-Second Hack

Quick trick before you snap:
– Ice roller or chilled spoon under your eyes
– Tap gently around your orbital bone with your ring finger
– Or even tilt your head upside down for 30 seconds (hello, blood flow!)

6. Avoid Direct Overhead Lighting

Unless your goal is “exhausted cave troll,” steer clear of ceiling lights. They cast shadows under your eyes and nose.
Side or front light only, always.

7. Frame Your Face

Hair over one shoulder, hand near your face, even a prop — they break up space and give shape to the shot.
Floating head syndrome? Not on your watch.

8. Use Your Tongue (Not Like That)

Place your tongue gently behind your top front teeth while smiling.
It subtly lifts the area under your chin and keeps your face relaxed and elegant.

9. Take Bursts, Not Singles

Never trust a single click. Hold the shutter and take a burst. One of those 10 will be The One — promise.

10. And Lastly… Pose With Confidence

Girl, the best filter is certainty.
Lift your energy. Fake it if you must. If you feel hot, it shows. No editing app can compete with that kind of radiance.